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Three Little Words...

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Don’t Force It!

Three very important words. More important than the infamous ILY words. Ha! Yeah you thought this was those words didnt you. Nah. Not this blog ;)

So why a blog about these words. Ive realised that good things truly come to those who wait. I’ve realised that as time goes by i’m not as patient as I use to be. Sometimes its good and at others its like sh!t Chess your impatience is going to get you into shit. Like for example; For the drivers out there, have you ever driven fast or cut someone up for no reason and then there you both are at the same traffic lights together. Lol. It’s just unnecessary you’ve not gained anything for that dumb decision. Yh this is the dumbness I do. Sometimes! Like chill. 
In 2020 I need to have faith in Gods timing. Wow. Thinking about it actually makes me cringe. Sorry this is my anxiety kicking in. Why have I lost that patience. Oh wait I know. The fact that 30 is creeping up on me and before I know it the clock will strike 12 and there it is. Bye 20s. Isn’t it scary how quick 2019 went by. 

So here we are. Just like the girls said in my woman to woman blogs.  Why do we, and I say this as girls, have a timeline or idealic vision of how their life should be by a certain time or by what everyone else is doing? I plea Guilty too. Yes, Gods timing is perfect but bruh I got stuff ta do lol. Fun and jokes aside, as much as I say I need to be more patient. Deep down i’m probably scared. There I said it. *covers face* The death of Kobe Bryant and his Beautiful daughter and the seven others who past away, has really shaken me and I still cant get over it. How in the blink of a moment can it just be over. That’s why lately i’ve been thinking so much about what I want to get done just incase tomorrow never comes. Scary shit right. I’ve always loved the saying ‘you can’t worry or have fear and love and trust God’. I always try to live life to the fullest and do what ive got to do but yeah I’m trying to force a lot in life at the minute and I need to chill for real. 

I know this is a short and sweet blog but it’s taken me forever to write. I didn’t know how deep to go but I suppose these shallow waters will do for now...

In Loving Memory of Kobe Bryant & Giana Bryant...

So the lesson to learn here, don’t force it oh and don’t race people if theres traffic lol. 


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