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Beyonce - Run the World

Ok so I’m going to hit this one from two angles so stay with me!

We are enough! Yes us women are enough! Enough for our jobs. Enough for our families. Enough for our partners!

Speaking to some of my girls and the amount of pressure that is put on us is just ridiculous. Why do we have to be compared to each other as women. Why cant we just be valued and enough as we are. There is just so much pressure from our male counterparts. You know especially single ladies. Like to even stand a chance in the dating game we have to promote ourselves online and even in person. Wake up fellas some of these girls have no substance. We have personality and brains and most of us are wifey material but u miss the real ones. And why do you miss them? Because you are chasing those that have the followers on social media because you feel and in some cases believe that if you get her other men will think you are “winning”. News flash! You are losing babe. The real ones are low key trust me. For those girls on the gram trust me beauty fades and you don't need likes on the gram for validation that you are beautiful.

So ladies please use this as motivation, keep doing you! You are enough! Boys, yes i’m speaking to the boys of society because this isn't a Man’s behaviour, enough of the bullsh*t. Stop wasting time with good for nothings and look for someone who is going to add to your plate and not take anything away.

Rant over...


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